Back in the flat, finally
3 Aug 2026 09:34 amIn the last update I stated that the repairs to my flat would be taken care of by the housing association. That turned out to be a lie. The contractor did come and looked at everything and I told him repeatedly that the only things that needed to be absolutely done were the plumbing and the blocked toilet.
They said they'd get in touch when they had a date as they were doing this as part of their "charitable" efforts so outside of paid work.
This dragged on and on with several attempts to connect via the Housing Officer until they finally came back saying "it's too much" and stating again that only the plumbing issues needed to be looked at, nothing.
Eventually the Housing Officer recommended we find an alternative so my extremely generous host hired a plumber they'd had a good experience with. While that plumber eventually did the work, it dragged out for another almost six weeks because of missing parts and then a back injury. Once the plumbing was done, we were finally able to hire cleaners for a deep clean. They were extremely efficient and did everything in one day, took the rubbish away and everything. I don't think the flat was that clean when I moved in.
All that remained was to declutter and clean the bedroom which I had been using to store all the loose things and items of furniture so the cleaners had the best access possible. I managed to do that over the course of a week or so. The final step was to have broadband installed but because I have an old socket, the "home install kit" wouldn't have worked so I had to book an engineer with a lead time of 2 weeks. Had I known about the delay earlier, I would have booked it earlier. Anyway, I now have broadband, even if the engineer was almost an hour later than the top limit of the time window.
After exchanging my small double bed for a single from Besom (local charity, organised by my social worker) and the serious decluttering, my bedroom now has enough space for a computer desk which I'll try and sort over the next few weeks. This means I'll have a dining/gaming/photography table in the lounge again.
I continue to receive Universal Credit and also applied for PIP a few weeks ago but without a result (positive or negative) yet. The current payment is just about enough for breaking even, especially as I had a few extra expenses when replacing things in the flat. If the PIP application goes through, I expect to receive only the minimum but even that will help immensely as I'd be able to afford better food, the occasional treat and maybe even put some money into savings.
The next large outlay will be a new pair of glasses. Reading on computer screens is fine but regular books and especially food etc. labels are almost impossible to read. Unfortunately I have quite a complicated prescription and because of my odd head shape/wide nose/low ears/eye alignment, I can't just buy a pair from one of those cheap online outlets as they need to be professionally fitted. The NHS might be able to give me a whopping £15 discount!!!
Therefore, money is still a concern and if you or anyone you know might be willing to make a small donation to my paypal, I would be extremely grateful: https://paypal.me/karohemd
I might also set up a gofundme or similar for the glasses.
Thank you for reading all this way!
ETA: I just made a resolution: Today is what I will celebrate instead of my birthday. What should I call it? Back Home Day? Restarting LIfe Day? Any suggestions welcome.









































